Wednesday, May 28, 2025 | By: Momma's Gonna Snap!
This photo right here — yes, this one — is the very first photo I have any record of taking.
Is it blurry? Yep.
Is there a random stranger walking straight through the middle of it? Absolutely.
Is it a photographic masterpiece? Not even close.
But I love it anyway.
It was around 1984, and I was about 4 years old. My mom, my older sister, and I were at Disney in Florida, visiting from New York. I remember being handed the camera (a film one, of course, because 1984) and getting ready to take a photo of my mom and sister sitting on a bench. I lined it up (I think I lined it up?), clicked the shutter, and… right as I snapped it, people walked directly through the frame.
And that was it. No checking the back of the camera. No retaking it on the spot. Just that one click... and likely a solid week or more before we’d even see what had happened. That’s how it was back then. You had one chance, and a lot of hope.
Somehow, this photo didnt get tossed. And Im SO so glad it didnt. Maybe not because of its technical skill (because, let’s be real...), but because it marked something bigger. It was my first. The first time I looked through a lens and tried to freeze a moment. The first time I understood the magic of photography - even if that magic had a stranger walking right through it.
My mom actually took the next photo I’m sharing — one of my sister and me from that same day.
Looking back, it means so much more now. That trip, that moment, that tiny photographer-in-the-making standing in the Florida sun with a camera almost too big for her hands.
Today, photography is my career, my creative outlet, and a way I connect deeply with other people. But back then? It was just fun. Just memory-making. Just me, trying to be like my mom, who was capturing memories of the ones she loved.
Now as a full-service portrait photographer, I think about this photo often. Especially when I see people hesitating to take the shot, waiting for things to be perfect. Spoiler alert: perfect rarely happens. But meaningful? That shows up in the messy, unexpected moments. The stranger walking through your frame. The lopsided grin. The flyaway hairs. The real life of it all.
I think my mom would laugh seeing me post this today. I know how proud she was to see me build a business from my passion. And I hope my own daughters see how far a love of something can take you.
So here’s to the beginnings. To blurry photos. To the people who put cameras in our hands and told us to go for it. And to all the not-so-perfect moments that end up mattering the most. ♥️
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